Monday, March 7, 2016

a week of contrasts and highlights

Maz with the Mercy Ministries team
plus the pilot from Hilmission 
so much has happened since we last updated our blog and once again to fully capture it all would require another chapter in what would become a huge book, however one word that could sum up the week would be 'contrasts'.

the contrasts between the different people we have had the opportunity to engage with, be those men in the local prison who we shared the whole of the four day 'Leadership for Life' training with, or the teachers and health care workers who also attended module one and two with us since we last posted, or the plight of those living in a remote village which took us 40 minutes to reach via helicopter.

the contrasts in the various landscapes that we have seen, be those behind dilapidated high walls that keep the world secure from the men and women who have been interned in the local prison, or the undulating countryside filled with hills and rivers, that we flew over that also keep a people trapped in poverty and insecurity.
hand made bricks that are going to be used
to build the new health clinic

the contrasts in the weather, be it the beating sun which draws up the moisture to create the stifling humid atmosphere or the crashing storms with downpours which wash away the sand roads and pour through the simple palm leaf structures of the tiny buildings that our neighbours call home.

the contrasts to the access of those things we so often take for granted, be that the clean and running water that flows from our taps and shower heads with the sounds of those living outside our bedroom window drawing water from a simple hand pump or the electricity that powers our lights, laptops and mobile phones which has been a bit hit and miss this week making it hard for us to undertake the most basic of tasks but which has drawn us towards the world that the majority of the people of the country live with each day.
the vast rural landscape that over 85% of the
Malagasy population call home

with all that said it has been an incredible week and to keep this post as succinct as possible we have focused on just two highlights. the first was the stunning journey we made via helicopter with the charity Mercy Ministries (MM). MM build and run 36 rural health care clinics, training up and then employing local people from the villages to be the person responsible to provide basic care to those living in the rural locations. remember Madagascar is twice the size of Great Britain but only has seven 'main roads' (roads is a very loose term but essentially means tarred) with over 85% of the 22 million people living in 'the bush'.

MM are looking at establishing a further three clinics in areas where either they have identified a need or if a village have approached them after seeing or hearing about the amazing healthcare changes that have taken place in other villages after MM have opened a clinic there. it was to one of those locations that we set out from Toamasina airport via helicopter to make the 40 minute journey. the flight was made in a six seater helicopter operated by Helimission, another amazing organisation who provide the various charities working in Madagascar the opportunity make use of the helicopter which is based in the capital Antananarivo's but which serves the whole of the country.
Maz arrives to handshakes and smiles!

once on board we headed north with the India ocean clearly visible out of the right hand window, the flat coast line soon turned into a vast landscape of hills and valleys, banana plantations overlooking carefully tended paddy (rice) fields which make up the staple of the local diet.

its hard to describe the scene as the pilot honed in on the location marker blinking away on his screen, we were only flying at a height of 300 meters and he was aware of the clock counting down to our expected time of arrival but even with as little as 20 seconds of flying time left there was no sign of anything that would confirm the existence of a single home, let lone a village of 1500 people.......

.......then all of a sudden the pilot spotted the scar of a red path snaking its way through the trees, then some simple reed huts set upon a hill, then the sight of a small white flag and a cross etched into the red soil. as we came in lower and made a sweeping left bank turn we were greeted by the sight of a hillside scattered with the people clothed in bright colours, the whole village and surrounding area had come to welcome us into their remote community, it truly was a never to be forgotten experience.
the whole village came
to greet us and showed us
to the place where the
clinic was being constructed

as the blades came to a stop the thousand or so men, women and children descended upon us, we were greeted by smiling face and handshakes, the Malagasy are quite a reserved people but their excitement at seeing us, and mainly the doctor and operations director of MM, overtook them and we were carried along on a wave of joy down the hill, across a small stream which provides the drinking and washing water and on up hill to the place where the foundations of the small concrete structure which were the beginnings of the new clinic.

this is to become the first concrete building ever to be built in the village and all the bags of cement which were then cast into bricks using the local sand were bought by hand through the hills and valleys by the village people, therefore it was with much passion and pride that these people stood around and showed us their handiwork.

there then followed some very long speeches and discussions around how the clinic would operate, the need to establish a committee to ensure the sustainability of the project, which although is overseen by MM is really operated and run by the village itself, which is a fantastic model and one that has been proven to work in their other 36 locations.

as the thunder rumbled and lighting flashed along the tops of the nearby mountains we were invited to join the elders in a reed home where a table had been set for a simple meal of rice and chicken, washed down with a cool glass of 'bon bon anglais' (a local fizzy drink resembling cream soda), we were encouraged to eat with gusto, however it was a little disconcerting having so many eyes watching every move of your fork or mouthful being consumed when they only sat and watched but we were assured that this was only to their delight to have us share with them which put our minds at ease.
the V.I.P's give their speeches
whilst the whole village listen!

it was a truly humbling experience and although we were there for near on two hours the time came for us to leave. we said our what we thought were our sad goodbyes to some of the local children who were obviously fascinated by our appearance in their village which sits over three hours walk from the nearest 'road' but as we started to walk back up to the landing spot the whole village turned with us and made the hike back up the hill accompanying us with singing and much shared laughter.

the hillside seemed even fuller than when we had arrived, word must have got out that this metal bird carrying vazaha (foreigners, especially european people) from the outside world had descended from the skies and again after much handshaking we left with a further gift of a live duck and a huge branch of green bananas.
village life...the home where we shared the meal.

sorry for the 'war and peace' style post but we've only just finished the first of our highlights! the second is still to follow, so go grab yourself a cuppa and come with us on another fascinating journey this time into the hearts, minds and lives of over 40 inmates at the local prison where we shared four mornings of leadership training with these often discarded men.

Love'nCare ministries, led by Cho and supported by his able team, have a weekly workshop within the prison, held in the church building they constructed a few years ago and which serves as a meeting point for those interested in expressing their Christian faith each morning and every Sunday.



the Emerging Leaders training, aptly called 'Leadership for Life' looks at our current ways of thinking, those that are shared by every human being on the planet and those that keep us small and unfulfilled, it then introduces mindsets that are common throughout any good leader, thus encouraging new thoughts, thought processes and vital applications for anyone to start leading their lives (module one), leading their team, or family (module two), leading their finances (module three) and then leading a community based project, be that income generating or a social project (module four). we were keen for this to be open to all inmates and were delighted that over 40 joined us for the whole 12 hour session!
the inmates listen intently to the
'Leadership for Life' modules

during the week we saw the whole countenance of those on the training change, their eyes both in their hearts and minds and in their physical appearances changed, gone were the men who saw their lives as hopeless and without purpose, each morning they came to learn with new vigour with stories of hope and by the end of the week a step by step plan to help create a better environment for themselves and those that share the tough conditions found behind a wall which keeps the prying eyes from seeing.
we are so blessed to be able to share this
life changing material

we don't want to paint a bleak picture but we're not quite sure that anyone can imaging the state of the place, and we can't go into detail but the government only provides these inmates, including women and children a few dried leaves each day for nourishment and family members are responsible for the care and welfare of their loved ones who live far from the rural villages that we are only now too aware of since our helicopter trip. given that Madagascar is one of the top 10 poorest countries in the world little imagination needs to be applied to understand how these people 'live'.

but there is hope and to hear the story of the men, one of whom had been held there since 1994 (22 years) and how he was applying the training into his thinking over the week was one that made our eyes shed more than a couple of tears.....'if only someone had shared this with me before I committed my crime' was his cry, 'please go and take this to the children so they don't end up like me', 'but i'm gonna now start to see myself as a leader and make a difference where i am right here and right now' (absolutely incredible and we will revisit the guys in a couple of weeks to see how they are doing and to encourage them in their changed thinking). 
the inmates pick up their pen's and
make notes about the modules

the reason we are now working with Emerging Leaders is to bring hope into the hearts and minds of some of the most vulnerable people in the world, our two highlights from the many many we could have shared with you this week see us providing that hope to those here in Madagascar!

we are thankful to you, our supporters and those who were inspired to create the 'leadership for life' material and we can't wait to see how that is going to be used this coming week as we work with the very prison guards that hold these newly inspired inmates and how they can work together to transform their lives, the lives of others, the lives of their community both inside and outside and transform the very nation of Madagascar.....it can happen and we are seeing that one life at a time.






Friday, February 26, 2016

madagascar end of week two....

wow we can hardly believe its coming to the second week that we've been in Madagascar and what a week it's been, below we've tried to capture some of the highlights which include having the opportunity to visit the poor people who had lost everything in a recent fire, engaging with the dear children the weekly homeless feeding programme, attending a 5.30am church service with over 700 people, sharing with the prisoners at their sunday service, being taken to the police station because we weren't carrying our passports, watching a local football match in the bush which was birthed out of the sports coach training we led two years ago, preparing and then sharing with over 70 people the Leadership training programme at a local church and making contact and working on further opportunities to share the Certificate in Community Leadership programme throughout Madagascar.

it's really hard to put down in word all the experiences that we have had during the last week, obviously the reason we are in Madagascar is to share the Emerging Leaders programme with as many people as we can so to have delivered the training of module one to a group of 78 people is a real mile stone in our lives. the training is really built on seeing peoples lives transformed by introducing leadership mind sets that are simple enough to put into practice. we'd seen how effective it had been in South Africa when Trevor and Jane Waldock came to share a version of this training with some of our community in Grabouw, but for us to deliver this training was going to be a different story. we worked together well, sharing the three hour session between us and to see the eyes of those we were teaching open up and engage with us during that first session was a real privilege and we are confident that those people will be applying this training into their lives right now.

we have further opportunities to share, the first of those starts tomorrow morning, where we will gather the teaching and key leaders of both Love'nCare (LNC) ministries and another wonderful NGO called Mercy Ministries together for module one, we are then going to be sharing the training in the local prison with further opportunities to share with other NGO's and even the prison guards which would be an great connector to encourage the prisoners thus completing a circle that will benefit the whole of that prison community.

outside of the training our hearts were once again broken by the plight of the thirty or so families who's homes had been lost to a huge fire that ripped through one of the informal settlements on the northern edge of Toamasina. Cho and Deborah from Love'ncare had raised funds via their connections in South Korea to purchase some large cooking pots, blankets and foam mattresses which we distributed via another NGO called Help Madagascar, representatives from the 30 families gathered together where they were given the provisions and we had the opportunity to see the devastating effect of the fire first hand. the homes made of a timber frame covered with a beautifully woven leaf cladding with palm leaf roofing which stand side by side along the banks of a small mosquito infested stream were overwhelmed by flames so quickly that everything was lost, however to stand in that place of devastation a few weeks after the fire and see new timber frames, some of the timber reclaimed and blackened by the fire, rising up like a phoenix was humbling to say the least.

our visit to the weekly street people meal on Saturday afternoon was yet another humbling experience and to spend time with the dear mothers and children, so skinny and malnourished was at times hard but to just be friends to these people, show them the love and care that so oft they are denied, taking up a child in your arms, playing simple sitting games and taking time to treat these people, especially the children with respect is all we could do and we're so glad of the heart that Love'ncare have for these dear people that are also blessed by the night shelter that has recently been opened by LNC.

we were wide awake at 4am on sunday morning readying ourselves for Pastor Fidi who was going to pick us up to share at his 5.30am service, we were once again amazed at the amount of people up and about at that time on a sunday morning and by the time the service had started over 750 people had joined us, filling all the ground floor and balcony seating of this large church with late comers joining outside (under cover of the early morning sun) with a video link!.....and this was the first of three services that would be held, the second starting at 7.30am with the late risers given the option of attending the one at 9.30am!we were able to encourage the congregation to attend our first leadership training session that we were going to host at the church on the Wednesday afternoon.

after a short trip home to freshen up we were soon making our way to the prison to join the inmates for our second service of the day which started at 9am, over 100 men, women and even their children joined us to offer up their thanks giving to God in both prayer and song and listen to me (Tim) deliver a 'message' of hope based around the feeding of the 5000. this was yet again another time were we felt so humbled, one by the joy that filled these peoples hearts, looking and knowing of the incredibly tough living conditions where their families and friends have to visit to provide the food for their loved one. remember this is a country where over 85% of the population live in rural areas where transport is so limited and what with those family members living on less that $2 a day they are expected to provide for those on the inside. we will share more about this when we have the chance to spend four mornings next week encouraging those very same prisoners with the leadership training!

we were due to meet up with Cho and some of the other LNC team for lunch but a spanner was thrown in the works when our car was stopped by the police who were running routine spot checks on the drivers and the vehicles paperwork. once we'd been pulled over our two Malagasy friends who were in the front seat were questioned about their credentials, and the credentials of the two white people sitting in the back of the vehicle, those being myself and Maz, where were our Visa documents? after a few minutes explaining that we didn't have them on us, mainly to do with the fact that we had just been sharing a service in the prison and that perhaps wasn't the best place to take vital documents the police man was not too cooperative and informed us that we needed to follow him to the police station to explain ourselves!..........in the end I was held there with Maz being allowed to return to our home/accommodation to pick up the documents. everything ended up ok, but our friends were so embarrassed about the situation, we had wasted over an hour of our time, for what, to prove something that the police already knew?

after a wonderful lunch with some of cho's South Korean friends at a restaurant on the beach, the Indian ocean lapping against a white sand beach where local fisherman's boats made from dugout logs sat waiting for their owners to return on Monday morning to go out searching for the wonderful selection of seafood that lays beneath the surface and which adorned our plates (this is where poverty and plenty meet), we were off into the bush with two of the LNC staff to watch their local football team take on a team from the town in a friendly match that was to take place on a flatish piece of ground set amongst the palm trees and rice paddy fields. this team had been set up as a result of the sports outreach programme which we came to share with around 20 local youth leaders two years ago. it was fantastic to see the team, adorned in their South Korean sponsored kit play some amazing football on what was a very challenging sandy pitch sparsely covered in long tufty grass. the boys encouraged each other and whilst we had to leave at half time we did get chance to see the only goal of the game scored by a very tricky left winger who finished off a well worked team move with aplomb.

the rest of our week was taken up by the long and tedious translation of the key story boards that we use to engage people with the leadership training, Maz has done an incredible job, ably assisted by young brother Theo. we go into this next week with thoughts of the training tomorrow morning, the four day training in the prison and a trip into the remote bush via helicopter with Mercy Ministries on Monday morning, but those stories will have to wait until next week!sorry about the lack of photos but our internet allowance has run out so you'll have to visit our facebook pages to see some of the photos we'd uploaded during the week, click here to see Tim's page!

Thursday, February 18, 2016

first week update from madagascar


our air seychelles flight in the seychelles
its exactly one week since we left the shores of a wintery England and made our long journey to the Indian Ocean isle of Madagascar, in this post we hope to provide you with an idea of what we've experienced since we arrived and what we've got to look forward to over the next few weeks as we seek to share the Emerging Leaders 'Certificate in Community Leadership' programme to those we have relationship with here in Toamasina.

firstly we want to let you know that other than being very hot and therefore sweaty we are both well, Cho and Deborah (the Directors of Love 'n Care Ministries) have made us feel very welcome in their home which we are sharing with two other girls from South Korea. 


selfie on a tuk-tuk ride to the market
our accommodation is situated on the edge of the city about a mile from the city center of Toamasina, the islands main port on the east coast, and has electricity and running water, unlike many of the homes that surround ours (which are little homes made from palm leaves raised up off the ground on vertical poles which keep out the unwanted rodents and ensure that the water flows under the home rather than through it when the rain's come and oh have we seen some rain since we've been here! it seems like there are just two settings on the weather gauge, blistering sun or torrential rain with the temperature set on high whatever the weather).
saturday afternoon street people feeding programme

after arriving in the capital Antananarivo (Tana) by plane and being met by Cho and Deborah we made the 'interesting' road trip on one of only a handful of tarred roads on the whole island, this was between Tana and Toamasina. Seeing as though this road links what is the main port and the capital one would be forgiven in thinking this would be a major three or four laned highway which would enable the ease of transportation of goods and people both to and from the island, well that iddle couldn't be further from the truth. the road, the RN2, is little more than an English country road which winds its way through the vast mountain ranges and rainforests is edged by soft verges, and small villages with people selling all kinds of goods via their tiny wooden shops which could easily be blown down by the traffic and the road even narrows to single carriageway bridges over some of the smaller rivers.


local fishermen's dugout kayaks
thankfully we enjoyed an overnight stop before completing the near on nine hour trip which was made all the more exciting with drivers of any kind of vehicle, and those ranged from huge articulated lorries carrying shipping containers, buses packed full of people, smaller taxi's overloaded with what seemed like the whole of the passengers worldly possessions precariously balanced on the roof, to small little rickshaws and even carts loaded (overloaded) with bananas being pushed by men up and down these tight roads. everyone was vying for position on the narrow, twisty roads and overtaking uphill on blind bends was the accepted norm!.......saying that our driver was fantastic and even if he did put Lewis Hamilton to shame on more than a couple of occasions he was very careful to ensure we arrived in one piece.
we encountered many different views
on our way to church last sunday!

upon arriving on Toamasina (also known by it's French name Tamatave, which is kinda crazy but hey nothing surprises us any more) we made our way to the local football stadium, OK once again put aside any ideas of what this might look like in your mind, where we joined the amazing team 
maz at a local standpipe

of dedicated people who provide a nutritional meal to the homeless people, mainly women and children, who live on the streets of the 'city'. this once a week meal might seem like a drop in the ocean but this ministry compliments the recent opening of a night shelter by LNC where these street people can stay in safety whilst choosing to remain on the street by day (their choice).
huge shipping container ship in toamasina port

we joined the church at Bethany school on Sunday morning, this once little school has been transformed since our first visit in 2014, it is now equipped with a two story building which provides the classrooms for around 300 children and an open sided building which doubles up as a church on Sundays. Tim spoke at the service and no the congregation (once again mainly made up of children) didn't fall asleep.
view of our neighbours from over the wall
 of our accomadation!

there are so many things that overwhelm you about Madagascar however one highlight must be the riot of colour that seems to abound this can be seen as you ride on the local Tuk Tuk past lines of vibrant coloured fruit and vegetables laid out on the small hand made market stalls that adorn the sides of all the roads in the town or in the clothing of the smiling faced people or leaves of the plants which we have the joy to look out over in our little garden. 


LNC school children, in class
the other thing that hits you is the extreme poverty, it's not right in your face but even to wake to the sounds of our nextdoor neighbours pumping water from a standpipe by hand or becoming aware of the smells wafting over our wall of people cooking on the open charcoal fires that surround us, one realises that yes this is one of the poorest countries in the world with a an annual GDP per capita of less than $500, which to give some comparison India sits at near on three times as much, with South Africa near to $7,000 and Great Britian at over $40,000. 
another classroom 

there is so much need here but with the links we have via LNC and their networks through Madagascar we are certain that we can help to change some of the mindsets that keep people from living the lives that they once dreamt of.

we had the opportunity to visit the two new schools that LNC have built since we last visited, this is an incredible testimony to the favour that these guys have, the desire to make a difference no matter what and to see children who live in some of the most challenging areas of the bush that surrounds Toamasina gain an education which could enable them to see a different life for themselves, their families and the wider communities as they become responsible and participating members of what is an amazing country. 
maz making her way
through the puddles on the way
to the market

apart from schooling LNC have acquired a large piece of land which they are now developing into a small farm, we visited this land and there is a large harvest of aubergines and courgettes ripening and with their chicken hatchery they have over 30 hens that will all be used to provide the nutritional meal that all the children receive during their school day. 

one other encouraging point is that via their work in the local prison where they hold a morning service that is open to all the 1000 men, women and children who are held there, one of the ex-inmates is now employed to help with the cultivation of the land at the farm which is fantastic news.
maz and theo at the new LNC school

we had the opportunity to meet up with a couple of old friends whom Cho had arranged to meet to discuss the Emerging Leaders material with and following that meeting we have now set up five workshops which will take place for three hours over the next four weeks. 

our first one starts next wednesday afternoon at a large local church and as part of the presentation we have agreed to speak at the church which has over 5,000 people on Sunday morning to encourage their congregation to attend the training course, we hope that not all of them will take up the offer, but as an example of our commitment to the cause the first of three services starts at 5.30am which will mean a very early start if we're both to get our hair sorted prior to being picked up at 5.00am!
waterpump/tower on the
farming land

our other events include the leadership staff of LNC as well as the inmates at the prison, we are so excited to be able to share this life changing material which has been so effective throughout the rest of Africa.

well that seems like a pretty comprehensive update for now, there is obviously so much more to share but we'll leave that until next time to share that.......

Sunday, February 14, 2016

First night in Madagascar

Maz outside our first
nights accommodation
I awoke to the soothing sounds of the rain forest, the melodic chirp of small insects and frogs and in the distance the call of a Lemur high up in the canopy. As I came to my senses however that idyllic dreamland vision was broken by the disconcerted thought that I'd gone totally blind such was the darkness that surrounded me. 

My mind was somewhat relieved as I caught the inconsistent blink of Maz' cell phone which I was aware of in my peripheral vision but even with that partial light I couldn't even make out the detail of the mosquito net that hung over our bed or my hand in front of my straining eyes.
Someone else who enjoys praying!

After what seemed like hours of stillness I decided to find out what time it was, I knew that my phone must be close at hand but then I remembered that I'd inadvertently dropped it onto the baked mud floor as I had drifted off to sleep in what felt hours ago. Once I'd located it I was shocked again as my eyes adjusted to the harsh light of the screen to discover it was only 11.46pm.

It was with mixed feelings that I turned over to find a comfortable position on the hard mattress, firstly I had the unexpected joy to be free to listen to this great crescendo of unfamiliar sounds for as long as I wanted such was the rest that my body had already found in those short hours of sleep but the thought of being so warm and slightly sweaty this early in the night caused my soul to long for the far off sunrise which would surely bring an even greater cacophony of noise!
our first night, in the rain forest

Our small single roomed abode with its palm reed thatched roof and adobe walls was heavy with the sweet smell of a spiral joss stick which we had lit a few hours before to ward off the attractions of the blood sucking mosquitoes that seem so abundant in the valleys and still places of the counties that sit along the equator, as I laid there as still as possible as not to wake Maz who was dreaming easily beside me my mind retraced the incredible journey that we'd been on since the last time we slept together on a cold winters night in rural England, was that really less than 48 hours ago, it felt like another world, in fact it was a whole world away from where we'll be serving for the next three months.......welcome to Madagascar!

Tuesday, February 2, 2016

and so the next season begins

Maz and Arron at Heathrow (actually this was taken
when we dropped Arron to catch his Thailand flight!)
as we touched down in a cold Heathrow airport following our three week trip to South Africa we were greeted by our brother-in-law (Mark) and our youngest son (Arron) who we thought we might not see before he flew off to his new job in Thailand, so that was a great surprise and one that we made the most of prior to his departure yesterday!


Trevor delivering some key points to the
Emerging Leaders leadership team.
the reason for our return to England, rather than flying direct from South Africa to Madagascar (which would not only have been the quicker option but also a much cheaper one too), was to join the team from Emerging Leaders at the event they were running for their core team in sunny Suffolk (a county on the east coast of England).


A David Beckham moment (Focus) as a leadership tool
what would seem like a long round about trip was in fact an important part of our journey and was a fitting start to our new season. it is their amazing community leadership programme that we will be using to help transform the hearts of minds of some of the most vulnerable people around the world, starting as you will all be aware in Madagascar later this month. 


Some of our African friends were a little cold
Trevor and Jane (the founders and the incredible people who have created the life changing material) had gathered their team from around the world to come together to learn from each other and share the potential of the training, encouraging us with stories of hope from the field and creating a desire to share this training with more and more people. they are keen to build a team of trainers to train other people living on the coal face of some of the worlds most challenging communities and we were so blessed to have been included as part of that team.
We were joined by Morpheus from
The Matrix (not really this is Sekou pretending!)

it was so amazing to meet up with Purity from Kenya, Joseph from South Africa and Steve from England who are the heads of their countries. Purity has been working with Emerging Leaders for the longest time and it was great to hear how lives are being transformed in some of the slums and wider communities in her country, but we were also very excited to hear about the work that is already taking place in South Africa (obviously a country very close to our hearts) however it was the stories that were shared by Steve that blew us away, Steve told us some fantastic stories of partnerships that were being developed to ensure that this Leadership programme was being accessed by some of the most venerable people in our home country (England) too.
children at Bethany in Madagascar 2014


so now it's time for us to get involved, we know that our time in Madagascar will be very different to anything we have experienced before and although we visited the projects in May 2014 living there for three months will be another ball game, however are really really excited about the opportunity we have been given and are really looking forward to be working with our friend Cho and his team at Love 'n Care Ministries again. 


Tim selfie with children in Madagascar 2014
we can't wait to blog again from that island with new stories of hope, where people are given the chance to see themselves as a leader, be that in their own lives, the lives of their families, their finances and their communities.
we'll be working with the communities along the inland
waterways on the east coast of Madagascar

we'll sign off for now, knowing that you guys will be coming along for the ride (abet from a distance) and that we will post up the stories as soon as we have a stable Internet connection be that in Tomasina or Antananarivo.  


we need a few more of these to help with the
delivery of the Leadership material
should you wish to support some of our financial costs on what is a self funded trip then please click on this link to give online and if you'd like to follow us or the Emerging Leaders team on twitter then follow these links which will take you to those twitter pages tim_at_voh and emerging leaders/leadership4hope

Saturday, January 23, 2016

our South African poem

we've just spent three weeks in South Africa, meeting up with old friends, watching the cricket and packing up the remnant of our lives for shipping back to England. our time with the Thembalitsha Foundation has now come to an end and we are looking forward to all that is ahead of us as we move into the future.

as we return back to familiar surroundings, which will become our base for the next phase of our lives, we have been thinking about all the incredible experiences that we've had during our time serving in what is a truly amazing country and I (Tim) have written the following poem which is a honest reflection which we think captures all aspects of our time in South Africa. 

So the curtain on our lives in South Africa comes down
Ten years of memories of our time in Cape Town
Of people, places, the sights and sounds
In a stunning country, our stories abound

The tug of the AIDS orphans grabbed deep in our hearts
Could we make a difference to provide them new starts
Born with an illness with no known cure
That often impacts on families so poor 

Cape Town is home to some iconic sights
Like the mountain so flat with its awesome heights
And an island which sits within Table Bay
A home to a prisoner back in the day

Apartheid was banished a long time ago
But crowds still live in townships that overflow
In homes made of cardboard and wood and tin
The colour of their face seems their only sin

Up into the Overberg via the Sir Lowys pass high
Stands the town of Grabouw one oft passes by
But this was the place we were called to live
Offering hope with all we could give

We created a home called the Village of Hope
Where children who's parents were struggling to cope
Could stay with us for a month or so
Giving them love and a place to grow

In the townships we ran clubs each day
Where children could play sports right where they stay
Lifestyle and health were taught with a ball
Much fun and laughter was enjoyed by all

We made great friends with the rich and the poor
Welcomed in to all homes via every door
Homes set in vineyards and orchards so green
Others in places few venture or want to be seen

With mountains and lakes and sunshine abounding
Our days living there were all quite astounding
Weekends at the beach enjoying the sun
Taking time out after a hard day was done

Tough days were faced almost every week
Wiping the tears of those too sad to speak
But the hope we provided was welcomed by all
They were so grateful we followed our call

Other folk came to join us from far and near
Working and building the vision was clear
Honouring man as if unto God
Ushering in Christ wherever we trod

Students from Holland and Germany too
Offered their time right out of the blue
Constructing buildings from straw and clay
Supporting the children in their own special way

Our staff were amazing and family became
Working together we are all the same
Human beings wanting to share
The love in our hearts for those in our care

We stayed in that town for over six years
Each day giving more blood, sweat and tears
But that season has passed all in a blur
We now sit here wondering how that all did occur

Now we've left and said our sad goodbyes
To a projects of hope where we gave our whole lives
But onward and upward we venture ahead
Seeking God for a new place to lay our head

Monday, January 11, 2016

.....and a Happy New Year


Christmas eve footie match with the family!
well here we are all grown up and moving into 2016 at a pace, sorry we've been so quiet but since a hectic Christmas season, where we were able to celebrate with all our family in England for the first time since 2007, and what a time we had!, we've flown over to South Africa to tidy some things up before moving into 2016 with new plans and awesome opportunities.
newest member of the QPR fan club!

we don't think we need to go into every detail but just to say that it was so wonderful to be able to share Christmas with our three sons, Chris, Josh and Arron (who flew in from Honduras especially to be there), as well as Chris' wife Claire and their three children (and thus our Grandchildren). Christmas is always a special time but we've often missed out on the real family gatherings whilst serving at the Village of Hope for all those years.

it was great to catch up with Josh' girlfriend, Haddy, as well as both sets of our parents, sisters (and brother-in-laws) as well as nephews, nieces and great nephews and nieces too. our family really has grown and it's incredible to be part of one that so embraces us when we return from our escapades but also encourages us into what we feel God has for us in the future.
Maz and Honi checking their facebook status!

we flew into Cape Town between Christmas and New Years and were not only greeted by the bright shinning sun, which we had missed during our English summer and dreary but warmish (for England) autumn and winter, but also by a wide array of faces of wonderful people who we had really missed during our ten month travel time. thanks to Jen and Laura for taking the time to meet for breakfast on your last day in Africa and for Mel, Babs and Shannon for making us feel very welcome as we returned to a country we had grown to love since our first visit in 2005.
our Jeep!

after picking up our beloved Jeep Wrangler (now sadly sold to fund our next trip to Madagascar, and beyond) in Grabouw we ventured to the stunning Paul Cluver wine estate where Inge and her wonderful family were willing to host us for the first week of our return. we were joined that evening by Dan and Lucy, recently engaged friends of ours who had been enjoying some winter sun, and wine, vacating their jobs in London for a few weeks.


gogo in the informal settlement
it was lovely to have Dan and Lucy around, we had opportunity to share some of the sights and places that were special to us, including visits to vineyards, beaches and a couple of bars, but we think the one place we loved to take them was to visit our friends in the Grabouw community, those people who live in the informal settlements with homes made up no more than tin shacks. to step out of the Jeep and to be welcomed by familiar faces in what are very tough daily living conditions and to walk around and see children who had been impacted, either those who had spent time at the Village of Hope whilst we sorted their home situations or children who had attended our daily sports outreach was amazing, it was like going home and its a moment that we will savor forever (we hope Dan and Lucy will too).
our friends aly and ross

our early arrival into Cape Town was timed with the visit of the England (and Wales, there you go Trefor) Cricket team who were due to play the second of four Test Matches against the current world number one team, South Africa, at the absolutely awesome Newlands Cricket Ground which sits in the shadows (dependent on the time of day, mostly it was hot hot sun for the duration of the five day match) of Table Mountain, the iconic backdrop to one of the worlds prettiest cities.


ben stokes' bat and gloves at lunch day two
England were on a role, after winning the first test in Durban in the 'Boxing Day Test' just a week before, our hopes were high as we settled into our seats to enjoy the cricket, the Barmy Army (who weren't as barmy an army as they had been in Barbados where we last laid eyes on them), and soak up the atmosphere which can only be captured in such a magnificent setting.


selfie with dan and lucy at the cricket
without going into too much detail, which I (Tim) could if you really wanted me to, England played well on the first day where the game was evenly set, that was until the second morning, remember this is a game invented by the English so we have lunch and tea and then we go off to bed to return the next day to do battle again!, our two middle order batsmen, actually one was our Wicket-keeper and the other was an All rounder, took apart the South African bowling attack scoring a world record breaking, and remember these records have stood for hundreds of years, 190 for no wicket in the morning session. in fact after Ben Stokes (the all-rounder type) had enjoyed his lunch he had scored a record breaking 258, on his own, I mean South Africa, remember the worlds number one team, had only scored a total more that 250 between all eleven batsmen during 2015!, so well done Ben and his partner Johnny, who also scored his maiden test hundred recording 150 not out, set the stadium alight.

the rest of the match (we mean the remainder of the near on four days) had little to write home about, so we won't, only to say that it ended in a draw, of which everyone seemed happy, and we go on to 'The Wanderers' with England still leading the series 1-0.


stunning location for a cricket ground
during the match we said our goodbyes to Dan and Lucy, who had to return home to go back to their day jobs, boo, and also had the opportunity to meet up with a couple (Ross and Ali) who we'd meet in Grenada and then Barbados. we enjoyed each others company at the match and then at a couple of delightful restaurants in the evening, it was so nice to make time to visit places that we haven't really had the chance to visit.

now the cricket has ended, for the time being, we've had the opportunity to meet up with some friends and ex-colleagues from our time here in Grabouw. it seems funny now packing up our lives again, ordering shipping tea chests to fill with the odds and ends that we had shipped here in 2008, plus a few more bits and pieces. we are grateful to our good friends Sandy and Ali for hosting us again, they always make us feel very special.


some old friends!
it is so good to touch base with those we hold dear to us, the House Mom's, Sport's Mentors and even the ladies who work in both the inpatient and outpatient units at Thembacare, it's hard to say our goodbyes not knowing when we'll see these beautiful people again but we move into 2016 with so much to look forward to, we are very very excited about the Emerging Leaders programme and the time we will spend in Madagascar sharing that with some people we already know.

so it's with our heads held high, expectation in our hearts and with warm blessings to share with both you and yours and with encouragement to you to really really seek to serve your fellow man with all your hearts and minds in whatever way you feel you can and to seek to make the world a better place and to know God in all His (or Her) fullness in 2016.